**Remember at this point Mom, Mike nor I know, that Louise has looted $74,000 from Moms Savings and more from her checking leaving Mom with about $3,500 in cash assets in combined checking and savings: AND NO IDEA WHAT CHECKS WERE OUTSTANDING ..***]

Early afternoon: Mom and I then returned to the Bank of Stockton in Lodi and showed Teressa the Document that Mom had signed and Mom requested, as directed by Mike Small, for the Bank to fax Mike a copy of the “Power of Attorney that was on file with the bank”. This the Bank of Stockton did.

[***Remember all of Mom's records had been looted by Louise & Ruth when mom was in the hospital and even Mom did not have a copy of this very important document that Louise and the girls had them sign back on July 16, 2008, just under 1 year prior to this:***(The looting of financial documents are documented in numerous conversations and in emails with Natalie, Mike Small, Louise & Richard where Richard and Louise were to return those financial records: Also documented is Richard and Louise admitting to “Purging” some documents as well)]

While at The Bank of Stockton, asking about the Trust account balances, the discovery was made that $74,000 was missing from Mom’s account, Teressa did not seem to be surprised at all about the missing funds and played very stupid as if to tell mom.. WHAT YOU DO NOT KNOW OR REMEMBER WHAT YOU DID WITH YOUR MONEY? And HEY it is not our fault you gave Louise “Power of Attorney”

Oct 17th 2009, the youngest of three sisters I am 47 years old. I moved from MD. with two high paying positions to care for my father in South Jersey.My two sisters ( each lived an hour away from my father) visited him only Xmas,and occassionally birthdays,While I visited him from MD. two or three times monthly,staying over night,stuffing the frig full of food,cooking,cleaning,providing lawn care for the jungle of a yard,laundry,correcting the massive disorder my mother had created in the house(as she was a shopaholic) and
threw practically nothing away for 40 years. My father was a hard working good father,
a Navy WWII hero.My mother was emotionally and verbally abusive to all of us, my father and myself receiving the larger doses.My mother was physically abusive and threatening, she also defrauded my father and on a small level myself,( I caught her quickly)she was mentally ill in the “tabu” 50s 60s 70s.My father worked 16 hours a day seven days a week,he was in denial. My sisters always believed the pathological lies she told of my father. My sisters rarely even phoned him.My mother also alienated the town,the police,the schools,the neighbors,my fathers family,and her family.
Now possibly due to these sick family dynamics,possibly due to greed or the illegal movement of my fathers funds), my oldest sister has taken the role of my mother,yelling at my sick 85 year old father,lieing to him about his
money,his health care.She even left him in his apartment without pants,(claiming she’s doing his laundry- it never got done.I told her I’m buying dad a coat.She told me she just bought him one.She used the exuse she didn’t want him outside because twice the police phoned her that he fell.She’s used the exuse that he mixed up his medicine to remove the marked bottles when I wanted to know why he was given twelve pills daily and what type of meds,dad would complain to me constantly how both my sisters were” screwing up his pills” again,I was refused any information.I hadn’t visited much due to several extended hospitalizations a blast crisis,and suppected heart failure.My sisters have ridiculed me for this,spoken poorly of me to father,basically filling his head with wild and completely untrue stories such as I had been in jail,I was divorced,lost my apartment,etc in order to portray
me as poor, homelesss,uncaring, irresponsible.Desiring to inspire hopelessness and helplessness and a further sense of isolation in my father,rejoicing crushing his spirit,and alienating who they perceive to be his favorite and know as his only defender.
I’ve unfortunately only became aware of the extent of abuse on sep17,2009 when
my eldest sister did not wish to release the location,name and phone number of the rehab she drove him to,I had get the information from the hospital.She quickly had him moved to residence care in the same rehab and has misinformed doctors of his mental clarity,he is now being held for dementia (and his mentle health has deteriated drastically now)
I and my husband both spoke to him on the phone 8-26-2009 he said something has happened,something is wrong with my eldest sister,I asked if she was sick,he said no,
he said something happened he’ll figure it out,that she was acting strangely.He would not give more information,I felt as, if he felt he could trust no one.Horrifically, my sister listened to a part of that conversation as it got taped on the answering machine and I suspect his imediate downfall ,dehydration and a forty pound loss was due to controling,intimidating vengeful abuse,I ‘ve heard her yell at him and insult him,calling him obnoxios for offering us some ice cream.She is unfit to have any control over his healthcare issues.His bottom plate dentures was recently broken or lost,
this is the second time,the first time I was told my eldest sister stepped on them.
I will defend my father’s rights,as he fought for these rights when he defended his country,
I only hope his country will defend him!

My younger sister had Dementia and was sold a Reverse Mortguage on our Famly Home that my Dad had provided funds for. Mom gave the home to my sister who willed it to me. I am her older brother (72) a Disabled Vet with 100% Disability Rating by the VA due to injuries in Armed Conflict. A caretaker I believe talked my sister into the loan without my knowledge. After my sister died our house was looted and all valuables were stolen. the Care giver in my opinion was the thief but I had no proof. I found out about the reverse mortguage and the salesman told me that I could live in the house and not pay mortguage payments for the rest of my life. He lied. B of A is foreclosing as I was not put on the loan. According to HUD the home must be sold to pay off HUD under 24 CFR 206.125 (d) requires that the elder who signed on the loan dies the home must be sold to pay off HUD. It does not take into consideration surviving elder qualifying spouses or other family members who may qualify but to oversight did not sign on the loan. HUD refuses to issue a waiver to allow me to stay in the home even though two of my sisters treating doctors wrote letters of opinion that my sister was suffering from Dementia and did not have the mental capacity to contract. HUD states that they have thousands of such cases, usually surving spouses, and it is the fault of congress for passing poorly written law with unintended consequences, and it is up to congress to fix. HUD said as it is federal law they have no choice but to force the bank to foreclose even though the property is upside down at this time and will cost HUD a very large loss. This is insane! New legislation is reqired to prevent thousands of unnecessary and tragic foreclosusres. I would appriciate any suggestions. Larry Anderson (707) 277 9041 larryfanderson@yahoo.com

Financial abuse is like a cancer. It starts so quietly and is hardly noticed. In my case, the biggest problem is my brother (the thief) lives in the same house with her. He has access to her mail and all financial documents (she’s now mostly blind). He’s easily spent $30K of her money. My whole story is at my blog (the family thief) which I published so others may learn. As I’ve discovered, it’s very difficult to take action when the victim doesn’t realize what’s happening and then is afraid to report it (after being told of the theft). I feel my hands are tied.

It is very difficult even as a professional to protect our parents from abuse epecially when my mom has been very secretive and controlling with all of her 5 children all of our lives. This breeds a huge amount of jealousy, confusion, and mistrust among the siblings which then makes the parent become confused and unknowing of who to trust.
In order to make a very sad and long story shorter because it is not over yet.

I am the eldest of my siblings as well as an RN who enjoy providing care to elders and advocating on their behalf. Myself and 3 of my siblings live in Michigan and the siaster in question lives in Ohio. This sister took advantage of my mother’s trust in her and was able to get my mother to move all of her money out of an account she has had for over 30 yrs into another account. Then my sister took my mother’s money and for a long while we did not know where my mother’s money was. Protective service determined my mother was not being abuse because my sister was paying all of her bills, she was neat and clean and had food to eat. My sister was able to trick my mother into giving her power of attorney and get her Dr to declare that she was incompetent. My sister is not the one here that my mother depends on. I take her to all of her Dr’s apts and set up her meds etc. We recently found out that my sister put my mother’s money into an annuity in her name. It is not in my mother’s name and she put my youngest sister as the beneficiary. We are fighting my sister for trying to obtain guardianship and trying to get the money back into my mother’s control.
I realize it sounds like my mom is incompetent but she isnt. My sisters would like to treat her as if she is but I encourage her independence. She was continuing to work up until last year when she became ill but she is fine now and able to continue to care for herself with minimal asistance.
My sister claims that what she has done is legal. But it is only by the Grace of God that my mom is still here because it has been one devastating experience and betrayal after another. My sister even tried to get my mom to move to Ohio and put her in a nursing home. My sister is not here to see how this has affected my mom’s ability to tust and to sleep at night. She worries. But my sister thinks she’s protecting my mother. At first she told my mom she was not getting a condo. But finally I was able to convince her to give the money needed for my mother to purchase the condo. My mom has told my sister, the court , protective services and the attorneys that she wants to be in control of her own finanaces. In the meantime, my mother’s money is being wasted on attorney fees and she lost money moving cd’s that had not yet matured, as well as the annuity that we just found out that is not in my mother’s name. My sister justifies her actions by indicating that my mom gets social security and she pays all of her bills so she doesn’t need any more money than that. This is why she says she took it upon herself to put my mother’s money in annuity in my sister’s name that is based on my sister’s age being eaten up in insurance!

My friend Max passed away Dec.6 2009 in Alabama he worked for a government agency for over 20 years in Orlando Fla. He was over 70 did not have the money to enjoy his elder years had to work His last year at his job his acting Supervisor for the past year harrased him about retirement almost every day Max was not the only one that was harrassed JR. JOE Jim who are over 60 Max ask me not to say nothing because it might hurt him I said ok BUT it hurt me to see him treated that way he was a good man he should have not been treated like that by a supervisor or any one else but he was I dont know what to do where to go or if any one cared now he is gone he is in a better place but WHY do people do this to people I was rased to respect my elders but there is not any one cares

I’m 59 yrs old had open heart surgrey on Sep11 2000. I’ve known for two years that my brother -in law has been trying to get my daughter-in law to sleep with her and he has money scamed me to times.I had enough after she had to go to a mental place to get help and get away from him.She got out and he starts all over again so I go over and blocked him on her phone and she told he that I had know what he had been doing for two years and I tell my wife she says no way so we me with the girls concler and she tells all then all hell breaks loose.My wife,s Dad was dying and I have been takeing him to the VA for over 20 yrs for treatment but after I told her I wasn;t aloud to go to his funeral thats sad.I wrote her a letter and told her to get stuff out of the house and she briengs her son my step son over and he make,s comments all during the time and I finlaly had enough and knot his hat off and you would have though I had shot him he went crazy and so did she he pull my arms behined my back held my arms until they swelled up as big a softballs and she hit me in the coner of the eye and took the skin off all the way to my ear. I’m scared of them and don’t know what to do.I went the hospital and a policeman took down everthing but I have’nt tuned in the pictures to them yet I’m scared what to do. I’m veteran myself and shouldn’t be treated that way.what to do Thanks for listing P C

Pete Carpenter :
I’m 59 yrs old had open heart surgy on Sep11 2000. I’ve known for two years that my brother -in law has been trying to get my daughter-in law to sleep with him and he has money scamed me to times.I had enough after she had to go to a mental place to get help and get away from him.She got out and he starts all over again so I go over and blocked him on her phone and she told he that I had know what he had been doing for two years and I tell my wife she says no way so we me with the girls concler and she tells all then all hell breaks loose.My wife,s Dad was dying and I have been takeing him to the VA for over 20 yrs for treatment but after I told her I wasn;t aloud to go to his funeral thats sad.I wrote her a letter and told her to get stuff out of the house and she briengs her son my step son over and he make,s comments all during the time and I finlaly had enough and knot his hat off and you would have though I had shot him he went crazy and so did she he pull my arms behine my back held my arms until they swelled up as big a softballs and she hit me in the coner of the eye and took the skin off all the way to my ear. I’m scared of them and don’t know what to do.I went the hospital and a policeman took down everthing but I have’nt tuned in the pictures to them yet I’m scared what to do. I’m veteran myself and shouldn’t be treated that way.what to do Thanks for listing P C

I just spoke with several senior citizens this afternoon while having lunch at a local restaurant. After telling them about our situation ( Financial Exploitation of an Elder by a family member (and urging them to contact their representative concerning this very important issue) I was surprised at the reply that it happens all of the time. They actually accept this as an unfortunate part of life. No wonder so many go unreported. After testing the system to see how grueling it really is,to get any justice I am thankful that I am still able to stand up for my husband as well as myself. The bad guys/gals are getting away with what I consider a financial slaughter. It hurts to hear my husband say how hard he worked for his home and how very easy it was for his own flesh and blood to “steal” it from him. It was one of the few things he had left to call his own. I was also raised to respect my elders. I have found that in some families greed overrides respect as well as decency .

Is Nursing Home Abuse Allowed by Politics? Are there such big politcal contributions that a blind eye is turned when someone is abused or neglected?

http://hubpages.com/hub/Cut-Medicare-Funding-Fraud-Begins-In-Nursing-Homes

I have read and checkout your website and its really sad that the elderly are not being herd myself I haveing a problem that my niece is abusing my mom who is 75 years old and had a stock and ammonia becuase of the stock she can not speake i have been trying to get help for two years to have my mom move in with me becuase I am afraid that my niece is kelling hey taking her monthly check for her own use leaving my mom alone sometime two or three days with out her medicantion or food I had call 911 and 311 so many times and all they say is that they will give my mom more help more home health aid serivce but they do not see the real problam the probelam is that my niece is abuseing her the last time my mom has seen a doctor was a year ago what hurts the most is that the law states that theres nothhing they can do unless a family has power of attorney and its hard for me wi get it becuase my nicec gets in the way and lies to my mom stating that the only reason why i am trying to get power of attorny is to place her i n a home this abuse has done on for so long and am afraid that my mom may doe before i get the help I need to save her

maureen montes :Oct 17th 2009, the youngest of three sisters I am 47 years old. I moved from MD. with two high paying positions to care for my father in South Jersey.My two sisters ( each lived an hour away from my father) visited him only Xmas,and occassionally birthdays,While I visited him from MD. two or three times monthly,staying over night,stuffing the frig full of food,cooking,cleaning,providing lawn care for the jungle of a yard,laundry,correcting the massive disorder my mother had created in the house(as she was a shopaholic) and threw practically nothing away for 40 years. My father was a hard working good father, a Navy WWII hero.My mother was emotionaly and verbaly abusive to all of us, my father and myself receiving the larger doses.My mother was physically abusive and threatening, she also defrauded my father and on a small level myself,( I caught her quickly)she was mentally ill in the “tabu” 50s 60s 70s.My father worked 16 hours a day seven days a week,he was in denial. My sisters always believed the pathological lies she told of my father. My sisters rarely even phoned him.My mother also alienated the town,the police,the schools,the neighbors,my fathers family,and her family.Now possibly due to these sick family dynamics,possibly due to greed or the illegal movement of my fathers funds, my oldest sister has taken the role of my mother,yelling at my sick 85 year old father,lieing to him about his money,his health care,etc.She even left him in his apartment without pants,(claiming she’s doing his laundry- it never got done.I told her I’m buying dad a coat.She told me she just bought him one.She used the exuse she didn’t want him outside because twice the police phoned her that he had fallen.She’s used the exuse that he mixed up his medicine to remove the marked bottles when I wanted to know why he was given twelve pills daily and what type of meds,dad would complain to me constantly how both my sisters were” screwing up his pills” again,I was refused any information.I hadn’t visited much due to several extended hospitalizations a blast crisis,and suspected heart failure.My sisters have ridiculed me for this,spoken poorly of me to father,basically filling his head with wildly insane stories such as I had been in jail,I was divorced,lost my apartment,etc in order to portray me as poor, homelesss,uncaring, irresponsible.Desiring to inspire hopelessness and helplessness and a further sense of isolation in my father,rejoicing crushing his spirit, and alienating who they perceive to be his favorite and know as his only defender.I’ve unfortunately only became aware of the extent of abuse on sep17,2009 when my eldest sister did not wish to release the location,name and phone number of the rehab she drove him to,I had get the information from the hospital.She quickly had him moved to residence care in the same rehab and has misinformed doctors of his mental clarity,he is now being held for dementia (and his mentle health has deteriated drastically now)I and my husband both spoke to him on the phone 8-26-2009 he said something has happened,something is wrong with my eldest sister,I asked if she was sick,he said no.He said something happened he’ll figure it out,that she was acting strangely.He would not give more information,I felt as, if he felt he could trust no one.Horrificaly, my sister listened to a part of that conversation as it got taped on the answering machine and I suspect his imediate downfall ,dehydration and a forty pound loss was due to controling,intimidating vengeful abuse,I ‘ve heard her yell at him and insult him,calling him obnoxios for offering us some ice cream.She is unfit to have any control over his healthcare issues.His bottom plate dentures was recently broken or lost, (this is the second time), the first time I was told my eldest sister stepped on them.I will defend my father’s rights,as he fought for these rights when he defended his country, I only hope his country will defend him!

Have been fighting for justice for my elderly mother for almost 10 years. Every agency, police department and witness says the same thing: there is no way to prove elder abuse without at least one of these 2 items:a doctor who will swear in court that the elderly person is incompetent if she is allowing her drug addict daughter to use all of her social security to buy drugs instead of support herorunless the elderly person says that she is being abused
if yu know another way, please help

My mother passed away Feb. 21, 2010 in at Ensign Park View Garden’s Nursing Home in Santa. She suffered from dementia, and aphasia. She was lovable, kind and considerate of the staff and other patient’s. She simply loved to love and be loved…that’s what she wanted most. She did not want to die!
She suffered from recurrent urinary tract infections, angry and inflamed skin infections, AND she was complaining of abdominal pain for the past year. I informed the nursing staff many times that my mother had the symptoms of another urinary tract infection, signs were: amber color, cloudy, foul smelling, lathergy, anxiety, confusion, severe abdominal pain and back pain. Not one person in that facility notified me regarding the symptoms because I was there almost every day, but I will tell you when went to the nurses station to tell them, they were cold, indifferent and didn’t show any concern about my observations.

The doctor and nursing staff may document daily but it was totally inconsistent with my observations. Remember, they document to cover for any potential lawsuit, not for the protection and treatment of the poor elderly patient.

Now, my mother had all the symptoms of sepsis due to a her urinary tract infection. She was terrified and crying out, “There’s something very wrong with me, please help me.” She was so sick from nausea, vomiting, back pain and abdominal pain and it was the saddest thing I’ve ever seen. I felt helpless and hopeless because her attending physician Dr. Timothy Geiske, M.D. refused to treat the infections or even follow the standard of care by prescribing the right antibiotic at the right dose and duration. He told me, “I will not treat your mother until she refuses to eat, drink and is unable to wake up.” After that I became terrified of this physician and thought he might be mentally off. How could any physician make that kind of cruel statement to a daughter who was devoted to her mother, her care and only requested he correctly diagnose her with the standard tests and treatment for her symptoms? So, I began to get suspicious and documented daily and hourly my observations of her illness, and nursing care. Thank God I documented as well as took photographs of her, her foley bag and horrible back rash!

The were many occasions when my mother didn’t have water, glasses and straws at her bedside. I constantly had to go the the nurses station for glasses and straws.

I requested lab work, and an abdominal ultrasound, The physician told me that my mother was too weak to send to the hospital for the ultrasound. This was another red flag, since ultrasounds are portable to any long-term care facility. He knew now, that I knew an Ultra Sound could be done at her bedside. It wasn’t until then that he ordered a portable ultrasound…

By this time my mother was gravely ill and, and I knew she would die if I didn’t get her to the hospital to find out exactly what was wrong with her. I had the nurse at the facility call 911 & transported her to our local emergency room Santa Rosa Memmorial. She had a Lab work, CT of the Abd., UA w/culture and sensitivity. The ER doctor told me he couldn’t find anything really wrong other that a hiatal hernia and diverticulitis (which went undiagnosed for years by Dr. Gesike! The reason her UTI wasn’t that bed is because Dr. Geiseke was treating her with Gentamycin injections without my knowledge. Gentamycin (an antibiotic) it will cover up and reduce the bacterial count, and clear the infection enough that the UTI goes untreated or under-treated. So, when she was in the ER ER THE URINARY TRACT INFECTION WOULD GO UNDECTED

This story is just the tip of the iceberg in my mother’s cause of death. Her roommate died 3 weeks later. There is a long list of concerns, questions and complaints I can’t go into here.

I am begging all of you. If you think a family member or friend is being neglected, they most likely are. Ombudsman can’t be trusted, the inspector lied on my mother’s narrative about me meeting her in her office. I never stepped foot in her office. She failed to and protect my mother from incompetent healthcare providers. Nor has the Department of Health, given me a final account of their findings on my appeal to their original report.

DO NOT LET THEM BLOW YOU OFF!!! GET YOUR MEDICAL RECORDS ASAP!!!

I am returning to school to devote the rest of my life to elderly forensics. I will make these doctors and facilities accountable for their all too often patient neglect and abuse. I have worked in the medical profession for 30 years, and I have seen nursing homes, nursing home employees, physicians and hospitals cover up their mistakes about as long as I can remember.
I am not bashing all doctors. There are more good than bad. I’ve known and have the best doctors worldwide.

Please fill free to contact me any time.

Catherine Moran
catherine@moran.org

are you serious norma dofflemyer why dont you tell these people how old u r an how old ur husband is why dont you tell them that 40 year differance an where does ur husband live still in his house so who took what from who u have changed the number to the house an his drs an his email address so his family can not contact him he is 91 an u r 50 something u r so crazy the only one doing the abuse is u we have heard u yelling at him in the house at the top of ur lungs an has also seen u physically abuse him its a shame that he cant even see his family bc u wont let it an have brain washed him did u forget to tell these people all of this !!!!!!!!!an ur on mental disablity wow u r so crazy !!!!!!!!!!!!u need to be locked up for what u have done to that man but god will get u at his gates for what u have done !!!!!!!@Norma Dofflemyer

My case is different to the above ones. My other is 87 years old and is at present residing at Regency Green nursing home in South Australia. She has been there since they opened about 2 years ago. She had previously been in another one which my sister had to take her out from because otherwise the people there would have killed not only her but the rest of the people from starvation, malnutricion etc. At regency Green we thought it was nice as it was brand new, the people seemed to be nice for a certain amount of time but right now my sister keeps complaining about many things they are and are not doing for my mum even to the head nurse and head office but no ones listens or wants to hear her complaints. Whilst my sister is there the people there treat my mum kindly but we think that when none of the family is around, they let her yell out for help or some other attendance ignoring her completely. My mum is in a wheel chair and cannot do anything for herself so she is completely dependant. My mum has been in hospital few days ago with high blood pressure and low pulse etc. and cannot understand how the doctors which go to the nursing home says no need to check her blood pressure. I am complaining about this abuse that since our parents,family or friends are old, they don’t deserve any attention and therefore be ignored and leave them to die as someone else will go in their place and still get the money. This is unpardonable and the government should look into these abuses. The people who go to work in these places should like what they are doing and treat people kindly as one day we will be in the same situation and we wouldn’t like to be kicked up the backside because we are old do we??? I don’t at least so please Government, or society, let’s do something for our elderly people and inspect the nursing homes and look thoroughly why there are so many people dying there within short time of being in the nursing homes as apart from not caring if they eat or not they must think that they are doing our family a favour and they are very wrong as we are paying their salaries. So if they proceed in this way because they are not geting enough money, 1) Look for another job or get the employer to raise their salaries and not too much of a margin in benefits. Thank you for reading and hope that this gets somewhere as do love our mother and want her with us for as long as we can. If others don’t care about their family, that’s their problem. Thank you.

I have been living in this trailor for a year now. Their is no heat and I am 62 years old there is no air condition. The owner says I have trees.This summer it got up to 100 in here. In the winter my space heaters cost me about 300.00 dollars to heat each month for eletric. I have ask her to put heat but nothing is done. I am trying to find a place to live that I can afford. I am on ss and rent is high. I pay my rent every month on time. I feel this is abuse. I have ask alot of people where to go to get help, they tell me to get a attorney, with what money? Why should I have to get an attorney? There should be someone some agency to go too for this kind of abuse.

My father is 80 years old and has Alzheimer’s. Last fall I discovered that over the last four years a friend of his has cleaned out his life savings to the tune of 1.8 million dollars. The lady told my father an amazing list of sob stories and lies about why she needed money and he wrote a check, over and over again.

We have managed to stop the bleeding and save a small a small amount if cash and his house but that is all. 90% of what he had is gone.

We have thousands of emails from this person but even with that as evidence the county prosecuting attorney says there is no crime here.

We have spent thousands on an attorney and private investigator. We have found that this is at least the third time she has done this. She is still married to victim number two who is 15 years older than her. Number one has 30 years older and my father is 20 years older.

The icing on cake is that she has already served 8 years of a 15 year sentence for murder. My father’s old revolver and ammunition is missing and the only person has access is this lady.

With all of that, law enforcement is just not interested. No crime they say.

My father worked and financed a business in the town where he lived, my brother worked along side my dad and benefited from my dad’s help. In January of 2007 my father had a stroke and in September of 2007 my brother had talked my dad into signing over his part of the business. My mother was still alive at that time so not only was my dad signing over what he had worked for all his life but also my mother’s livelihood should my dad die before she did. My brother’s told my dad that if he didn’t sign it over the other siblings would try to take it from him. Not only did my dad sign the business over to him, he also allowed my brother to take out an $40,000 loan on my dad’s house, although the brother owns several houses himself and is a contractor on the side. My mom and dad’s house was paid off and dad was always telling us the only bills he had was utility bills for their house. Now both my mom and dad are gone and my brother is sole owner of my dad’s business and still owes money on the loan he took out on my parents house. Greed is a hard master it never allows you to be satisfied with what you have, but to take advantage of old sick parents is a crime that should be punished.

I would like to share my story of my mom who is deceased now at the hands of a evil man and his mistress. We hired 3 attorneys, filed numerous complaints with the state and local DHS, state adult abuse hot line, police departments, Gene Taylor who is a congressman of MS, the state of MS attorney general, US attorney general, the Bush hot line, CNN headline news, Oprah show, Montel Williams show but to now avail. No one wanted to help therefore Mom passed away at the hands of this evil man and his mistress. This man obtained a fake POA and took over mom’s life. He took everything with this POA. Mom had a severe stroke in 2000 and this man, with the fake POA took her home, life insurance monies, my dads pension money, made a new will for mom, denied her proper health care, housed a mistress in my moms house, had sex with this mistress in the same bed mom laid in,over medicated and sedated mom which is in the medical records, feed her alcohol and much more. Due to the lack of proper health care for a stroke victim and with the admission of the mistress over-medicating her with morphine, mom passed away in 2004. The message I would like to put out to the public is that the SYSTEMS AND PROGRAMS OFFERED FROM THE STATE OF MS failed mom and her heirs to the highest degree. The state would not provide her with protective custody nor would they investigate. What should I do NOW?

I have been battling a fiduciary who was pitched by adult protective services (APS) to be “the only way” for my father to save his assets from a con man who had lured him into giving him a durable power of attorney, who promptly went about trying to sell the $500,000 property while my father went into the hospital temporarily. APS didn’t tell my father that once assigned, the fiduciary could do anything she wanted to do, including selling his home without his consent. The fiduciary put him in a nursing home, threw me out of our home and confiscated my property to sell with the estate. The fiduciary then sold our half a million dollar property for a lousy $8,600. The fiduciary APS hired turned out to be worse than the criminal they were supposed to be protecting him from. There was nothing I could do to stop this from happening—I am disabled, and was thrown out literally into the street with nothing but the clothes on my back, and my cat and walker.

This whole nightmare was nothing but a lie. Adult protective services DO NOT help or protect anyone’s elderly family. They scam on them the same as any criminal would, they just have the protection of the law to help them get away with their scams. Never cooperate with APS, no matter what they say, never let them in or you’ll regret it.

My grandmother is 90 and has severe drepression, she was living at our house for a few months when my aunt unexpectedly can to town to take care of her. My grandmother sam is now living back at her house with my aunt who refuses to take Sam to her psychologist, or any other doctors appointment, and won’t allow sam to take her depression medication. Sam exercised everyday when living with us and was able to walk over three blocks and back, but now she can barely walk to the driveway and back with out panting. Sam is so unbalanced that she fell and got a black eye, and broke a tooth just walking two steps. She doesn’t eat so she is losing weight, and she is beginning to have signs of dimmentia. She forgot my mothers name, her daughter. I want to step in but my grandmother is being controlled by my aunt and has asked my mother to stop visiting, my other aunts and uncles think that if sam wants to sit on a couch and rot then it’s her choice. I don’t know how to help when I’m not allowed to see my grandmother.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kuFyBsYRwwU&feature=bf_play&playnext=1&list=QL&index=1

http://www.youtube.com/user/marquisdejolie

his username is marquisdejolie

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hi i noticed that you have a link to the elder abuse i have a friend on you tube who has been documenting the ongoing abuse of his elderly mother
and his drug addict sister the mother is 80 and the daughter 50 + ~ he seems to have tried everything and still the daughter is residing in the mothers house mentally physically and finacially abusing the mother and the police dont want to get involved

i know you are probably very very busy but if u could please just look at his last video the link on the top or the link below called momma gets a black eye for christmas

if there is anything u could possibly do or advise i would be very grateful i am happy to pass t anything on to him or if u like u can go directly to him

ty so much for looking and reading my note to you

i dont live in america so im unable to assist him in person but i have tried to in a very small way tried i know he just needs the right person who can help him

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@S Kaplan

i was reading ur story it sounds very much like my friend in americas story no one will say that his momma is incompetent which she doesnt appear to be and no one lift a finger to get the dauhgter out of the house

the police refuse to help she drives drunk drug affected deals drugs out of the house now has a drug addict living in a car in the driveway she ,Beth locked the momma out of the house ( which is mommas house by the way ) changed the locks and has refused to give her a key
money has been taken by out of mommas bank account still the police will do nothing
momma has been bashed intimidated physically and mentally abused and still authorities will do nothing

its a very sad situation if u find a way let me know be glad to share good news with u

I have a lot of complaints against Los Angeles County Adult Protection (APS) and Community Senior Citizen and Services (CSS) social workers still made fun of me as a deaf ASP/CSS victim since my dad died on November, 2009 and my mom was innocently died with wrong medinces on March 5, 2011 without my full consents.

I’d try to file many APS/CSS complaint reports against my siblings for financial, verbal and emotional abuses since my dad and mom died, but APS/CSS social workers grossly neglected to listen my ASP/CSS complaint rights, because I’m a deaf APS/CSS victim.

I’d try to report my complaint rights to the Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors who still neglected to listen my complaint rights against Los Angeles County ASP/CSS social workers who still made fun of me as a deaf APS/CSS victim.

This make me worse frustrations that it is very harder to find any Los Angeles County pro bon attorney who can help my consititution rights against Los Angeles County Board of Superviosrs for deaf discrimination violations.

I still cry harder every day while my siblings still abused to control against my privacy life and decision rights after my dad and mom died without getting pro bona attorney helps.

If you know of any one can help my constitution rights against Los Angeles County Board of Supervisors and Los Angeles County ASP/CSS departments for deaf discrimination cases.

I’m a greater helpless and speechless deaf senior citizen victim of elder abuse treatments
after my dad died and my mom was innocently died on March 5, 2011 without my full consents.

You can e-mail at deafelderabusevictim@live.com for further comments.